Birthday parties and playdates: what to tell the host
Most hosts want to help. They just need to know what to do, in writing, before the party.
Tips
- Talk to the host a few days before. A quick call or message is easier than explaining at the door.
- Offer to bring your child’s own food. Packing their meal, treat and drink means the host doesn’t have to change their plans.
- Give the host a card. The babysitter card works well: your contacts, what not to give, and where your child’s plan is kept.
- Ask what will be served, and when. Cake, loot bags with candy, pizza and snacks on the table.
- Staying is always an option. Many parents stay for the party, especially the first time.
Before the party
- Message the host a few days ahead.
- Ask what food will be served, and when.
- Pack your child’s own meal, treat and drink, labelled with their name.
- Fill in and print a card for the host.
- If you won’t be staying, show the host where your child’s plan is kept.
- Leave your phone number and a second contact.
- Remind your child to eat only the food you packed, unless you have said yes.